Tie both your hands behind your backs, then have sex. Get naked, oil yourself up with some baby oil and then lie on top, moving your body around on top of theirs to massage and titillate. Put a towel (or two) on the bed, then get your partner to lie flat. Fill the glove with lots of lube, slip it over an erect penis and slip it up and down. Wrap a strand of some real or fake pearls or beads around your hand (check first for rough edges), add lots of lube, then wrap your hand around his penis and pump it up and down.ĭon't have any pearls? Head to the kitchen, grab a (new or clean) pair of rubber gloves and head back to bed. An alternative position for the receiver: you pull both your legs up, so your knees are against your chest. Some givers find it more comfortable to be propped up on their knees and leaning forward. You then drape your leg over your partner's neck or upper back. Your partner lies sideways across the bed, stomach on the bed, and slips under your lifted leg, positioning their mouth between your legs. If you're the lucky recipient, lie on the bed (in the position you would sleep in, head near the top of the bed) with one leg lifted. This area is packed with highly sensitive nerve endings and responds well to firm massage (using fingers or a sex toy). It also allows easy access to the perineum – the hairless bit between the vagina and anus. The sideways stimulation feels surprisingly unusual and more intense for some women – which is perhaps why some sex educators claim it makes women reach orgasm faster (anecdotal evidence says between three to five minutes). Lots of women find straight up-and-down stimulation too intense or find that they like one side of their clitoris licked more than the other. It's a complete mystery where the name came from, by the way, but it's been used to describe sideways oral since 2001.īecause it allows your partner to explore the whole of the vulva, not just target the clitoris. The Kivin method has the person who is giving, put their body perpendicular – rather than parallel – to the person who is on the receiving end. Which isn't that out there until you consider that nearly all of us do it with our lover positioned straight between our legs. In a nutshell, this is simply sideways oral sex. It does feel weirdly good though – the grapefruit felt much colder than I expected and a warm tongue and something cold was a good combo.' She also broke out in a rash on her chin afterwards: the juice irritated her skin. But it's just comical and my partner kept laughing, which set me off. 'Don't get me wrong: it felt great and everyone should try it at least once. I'd strongly advise washing his penis and testicles quickly afterwards, simply because the juice is acidic, although urologists say there aren't any health risks. Continue sucking and twisting the grapefruit until orgasm. You then perform oral sex, as you usually would, while rotating the grapefruit around the shaft and pushing it up and down. The juice, by the way, is all part of the experience – and the bit lots of men said was the best. Then, wait until he's erect then slowly push the grapefruit down to the base of the penis: the fruit expands as you press it down.Īs you can imagine, juice goes everywhere, so put a couple of towels down, get him to stand in the bath (yes really) or on a floor you can easily clean afterwards. (The smaller the hole, the tighter it will feel when you first push it down over the penis.)īecause citrus fruits are acidic, always check first to make sure his penis doesn't have any little cuts or razor burn to avoid it stinging. Cut the two navel ends off, so it resembles a thick wheel, and cut a small hole in the centre of the grapefruit. You then roll it on a benchtop for a minute or two to loosen the fruit and make the flesh juicier.

(If you're allergic to grapefruit, you can use a large naval orange.) Use a Ruby Red grapefruit (or the sweetest variety you can find) and put it in warm water to get it to room temperature. It'll be a first for most of you – and something to amuse your friends with when you retell the story after a couple of wines.

Wearing the grapefruit takes three inches off the length, so there's no potential for 'deep-throating'. The grapefruit technique is also perfect for women who don't enjoy giving oral sex because they gag easily. To say it's a novel experience is stating the obvious but it's fun – and we all get way too serious about sex. If you watch the original video, I'm not entirely sure you'll be able to manage doing this without laughing.

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